by Tuesday I am fading
Sep. 14th, 2004 09:37 am![[personal profile]](https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/silk/identity/user.png){kind=small}
chestnutcurlsThe weather is wonderful today- partly cloudy, cool and breezy. Leaves are starting to appear on the ground. It's like fall is shouting, "Here I am!" I've never been so glad to see it. :)
I forgot to mention that our Sunday school class is starting an abbreviated version of the Crown Financial Series. Evan and I wanted to take it when it was offered to the church in general, but ironically, it cost $55. :P This time it's free. I'm really looking forward to it, since this is the area in which he and I probably need the most work. Last Sunday, as an intro, we talked a little about 401(k)s. I don't have a 401k for several reasons, the main one being that I'm quitting work in several years anyway (God willing). However, I do have a good savings account and save part of every paycheck. I'd always wondered how the heck most people could afford to save and contribute to retirement. Evan pointed out that two-thirds of Americans don't have a savings account. I couldn't believe that was true, but I started asking friends about it, and he seems to be right. I can't imagine not having savings to fall back on in an emergency. Then again, when we're all 75, my friends will be living large on their retirement millions and Evan and I will probably be forced to move back to a little apartment. Oh well. :)
My latest book recommendation is The Secret Life of Bees by Sue Monk Kidd. I read the whole thing in two days. It's that good. I was so into it last night that I got way behind in my cleaning.
Monday is typically my cleaning and organizing night, and lately it's become stressful. I'm trying to figure out how my stuff and Evan's stuff will all fit together, but more than that, I want it to all be organized perfectly from the beginning. (Yes, I am Monica Geller.) Of course, this is a ridiculous goal and usually has me in tears by the time Evan comes over from work (around 8:30 pm). Last week he arrived to find me crying because I couldn't find a perfect place for a cassette tape case. He couldn't help but laugh, which was the best thing he could have done because then I laughed too. I think living with him will do me a lot of good. :) At the risk of being wasteful, I think we're going to get rid of a lot of old things once we get new things (like towels and kitchen stuff). There's just no room for all of it, and most of it is pretty decrepit anyway.
Speaking of old stuff, many of my dress shoes have decided to fall apart at the same time. My beautiful black Rampage heels, for which I get compliments every time I wear them, have broken straps. They're only a year old! :( I'll figure out some way to fix them, but in the meantime I can't wear them. Also, my Steve Madden wedge heels are starting to look run-down. What good does it do to buy more expensive shoes? I think a trip to Payless will be in order soon.
I have a good life. :)
I forgot to mention that our Sunday school class is starting an abbreviated version of the Crown Financial Series. Evan and I wanted to take it when it was offered to the church in general, but ironically, it cost $55. :P This time it's free. I'm really looking forward to it, since this is the area in which he and I probably need the most work. Last Sunday, as an intro, we talked a little about 401(k)s. I don't have a 401k for several reasons, the main one being that I'm quitting work in several years anyway (God willing). However, I do have a good savings account and save part of every paycheck. I'd always wondered how the heck most people could afford to save and contribute to retirement. Evan pointed out that two-thirds of Americans don't have a savings account. I couldn't believe that was true, but I started asking friends about it, and he seems to be right. I can't imagine not having savings to fall back on in an emergency. Then again, when we're all 75, my friends will be living large on their retirement millions and Evan and I will probably be forced to move back to a little apartment. Oh well. :)
My latest book recommendation is The Secret Life of Bees by Sue Monk Kidd. I read the whole thing in two days. It's that good. I was so into it last night that I got way behind in my cleaning.
Monday is typically my cleaning and organizing night, and lately it's become stressful. I'm trying to figure out how my stuff and Evan's stuff will all fit together, but more than that, I want it to all be organized perfectly from the beginning. (Yes, I am Monica Geller.) Of course, this is a ridiculous goal and usually has me in tears by the time Evan comes over from work (around 8:30 pm). Last week he arrived to find me crying because I couldn't find a perfect place for a cassette tape case. He couldn't help but laugh, which was the best thing he could have done because then I laughed too. I think living with him will do me a lot of good. :) At the risk of being wasteful, I think we're going to get rid of a lot of old things once we get new things (like towels and kitchen stuff). There's just no room for all of it, and most of it is pretty decrepit anyway.
Speaking of old stuff, many of my dress shoes have decided to fall apart at the same time. My beautiful black Rampage heels, for which I get compliments every time I wear them, have broken straps. They're only a year old! :( I'll figure out some way to fix them, but in the meantime I can't wear them. Also, my Steve Madden wedge heels are starting to look run-down. What good does it do to buy more expensive shoes? I think a trip to Payless will be in order soon.
I have a good life. :)
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Date: 2004-09-14 07:50 am (UTC)I get really frustrated by cleaning/organizing too. I often wish I could be on that show "Clean Sweep!" So someone could just organize everything for me. lol Anyway, the key is to get rid of old stuff so I think that you are on the right track. Now if only I could do that... ;P
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Date: 2004-09-14 08:41 am (UTC)1) Relax. Accept that you're not the world's greatest housekeeper. Take your time.
2) Aim to clean in 15-minute segments, at least once a day.
I'm not always successful, but my kitchen is beginning to look more presentable...when some garbage goes out the door tomorrow, it will get even better.
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Date: 2004-09-14 12:42 pm (UTC)Thanks for relating!
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Date: 2004-09-14 12:56 pm (UTC)The sad part about charities is that once you do a lot of work you find out where donations are really going. Some charities are dying, some are becoming corrupt, and others are structured so what you give will directly help someone.
I can tell you right now that Hurricane Relief donations sent through grocery stores gets there a LOT faster than any other means (and don't get me started on what a sham the Red Cross is here). How they do it is the store will then take your money out of the inventory in a store down there and the store down there makes a bulk contribution to distribution areas. I volunteered to help with relief distribution in Frances-hit areas but because of Nicholas I couldn't. =(
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Date: 2004-09-14 08:13 am (UTC)Monica - do you have a secret messy locked closed?!?!
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Date: 2004-09-14 12:46 pm (UTC)shoe repair
Date: 2004-09-14 12:58 pm (UTC)love the brens
em
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Date: 2004-09-14 01:35 pm (UTC)Give Evan my best!
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Date: 2004-09-14 01:51 pm (UTC)Also, what is that book about?
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Date: 2004-09-14 02:10 pm (UTC)(no subject)
Date: 2004-09-14 05:15 pm (UTC)As for the savings thing - that doesn't really amaze me much. Some people are very fickle with money and don't tend to think about the long term and things like that. Geoff and my savings account is a little sad at the moment but at least we have plans and goals and it will look good once the tax for this year is paid :)
As for the orderly house - yeah it doesn't work. I tired it and it doesn't work. And then wait until kids come along. I wonder how a small baby who can't so much as move an inch on the floor can create so much mess! heh
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Date: 2004-09-15 06:50 am (UTC)I went through a phase were I wasn't doing much fiction reading...but over the last year I've been reading a ton..I'm not sure what brought it on. :)
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